Our family

GOD, the Creator of man, alone now had established the family constitution. 'God setteth the solitary in families,' Ps. 68:6. As to the design of this constitution, we are expressly informed in Malachi 2:15. 'And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the Spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed.' And it is declared that 'a seed shall serve him,' Ps. 22:30.  A godly seed generation  requires both male and female.. If then the design of God, in the family constitution, is to raise up a holy seed to serve him, it is incumbent on those who have the charge of families  train them up properely  and it is imperative we all do keep God's appointed  family unity as well. "In  the nature and design of the family constitution, therefore, arises a solemn duty resting upon parents and masters, to train up their children and servants in the way in which they should go, in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, so that when they come to the years of discretion and self-government, they may not depart from it, but become 'a godly seed' to serve the Lord."(Prov 22:6 KJV)  Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
All families are to have one male head as well. (Eph 5:23 KJV)  For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
"The head of a family sustains to his household the threefold relation of a king, a prophet, and a priest. As a king, he rules his house, and administers its government. As a prophet, it is his business to impart suitable instruction to his children and servants. And as a priest, he should conduct the worship, and lead the social devotions of the family. These duties are strictly of a religious character, and are enjoined by Divine authority. They arise naturally out of the family constitution; and their conscientious and faithful performance, with the Divine blessing, can alone secure the great end of that institution."
"The family constitution is the original, elementary, and therefore the simplest form of society. All public communities, whether civil or ecclesiastical, are composed of families. The forms of public societies, and their modes of government, have undergone, and are still undergoing, great and important changes; but that of the family remains, amid all these revolutions, essentially the same as when originally constituted...  Families continue on the earth, that the wise object of their establishment, may be effected. "

"Families are the appointed nurseries of both Church and State. They are to furnish civil society with virtuous and worthy members, and the church with active, useful, and devoted Christians. Both worlds may, therefore, be said to meet in the family society, and bring with them those considerations which enhance to an awful degree, the weighty responsibilities which rest upon the family head. "

It is important to understand what the devil himself tries to break down god's given natural order.. it is to bring curses upon all of the violators.. "From this divinely established fountain of influences, shall issue blessings or curses upon the nation and the Church. Into this fountain, then, must be thrown the salt, that its streams may be purified and purifying. Otherwise they will convey pollution and death whithersoever they flow.

(Deu 28:15 KJV)  But it shall come to pass, if thou wilt not hearken unto the voice of the LORD thy God, to observe to do all his commandments and his statutes which I command thee this day; that all these curses shall come upon thee, and overtake thee:

(2 Tim 3:15 KJV)  And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.16   All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: 17   That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.
(2 Tim 4:1 KJV)  I charge thee therefore before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, who shall judge the quick and the dead at his appearing and his kingdom;2  Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; 4 And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.|57|815 
The realties are that Stephen Harper is in a lose/lose position on voting for the legitimacy of gay marriages.. for firstly the outcome will not stop the gays from being gays.
Secondly it is an absurd act to even try to vote on the legitimacy of one of God's moral commandment at any time.. for the outcome will not affect God's ALREADY STATED CLEAR VALUES on this subject,  nor cause God to change the commandments, standards.
(Lev 18:22 KJV)  Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.
(Lev 18:23 KJV)  Neither shalt thou lie with any beast to defile thyself therewith: neither shall any woman stand before a beast to lie down thereto: it is confusion.
(Lev 20:16 KJV)  And if a woman approach unto any beast, and lie down thereto, thou shalt kill the woman, and the beast: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
(Lev 20:13 KJV)  If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
(Lev 20:15 KJV)  And if a man lie with a beast, he shall surely be put to death: and ye shall slay the beast.
(Lev 20:12 KJV)  And if a man lie with his daughter in law, both of them shall surely be put to death: they have wrought confusion; their blood shall be upon them
(Exo 22:16 KJV)  And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.
(Jer 5:8 KJV)  They were as fed horses in the morning: every one neighed after his neighbour's wife.
(Jer 5:9 KJV)  Shall I not visit for these things? saith the LORD: and shall not my soul be avenged on such a nation as this?
(Jer 5:10 KJV)  Go ye up upon her walls, and destroy; but make not a full end: take away her battlements; for they are not the LORD'S.
(Num 23:19 KJV)  God is not a man, that he should lie; neither the son of man, that he should repent: hath he said, and shall he not do it? or hath he spoken, and shall he not make it good?
I personally have no doubts at all rightfully that a real Hell is the final destination of all of the  unrepentant Divorcees, Adulterers, fornicators, gays.
(1 Cor 6:9 KJV)  Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
(1 Cor 6:10 KJV)  Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
(Mat 18:3 KJV)  And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.
(Acts 17:11 KJV)  These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word ( the apostlic Bible now) with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures ( the Bible) daily, whether those things were so.
George Whitefield was a great preacher but
(Acts 20:30 KJV)  Also of your own selves shall men arise, speaking perverse things, to draw away disciples after them.
Most people  are really personally ignorant of what the Bible actually says and thus they falsely believe what their so called leaders, men tell them as to what the Bible says.. but there is no excuse to be personally ignorant of what the Bible actually says..
(2 Tim 2:15 KJV)  Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.
 we are to firstly study the Bible firstly itself  and not the others rather
(2 Tim 2:16 KJV)  But shun profane and vain babblings: for they will increase unto more ungodliness.
I still can not forget my first personal shock, horrification to discover that a Bible school student room mate was stealing my food, cause he was saving his money to take girls out on a date. I had the opportunity to revaluate the spirituality of many these related Bible students, and the same Calgary Bible school still had mostly no effect on the bad ones, they came out just as bad as they had gone it for the most parts. One reason  was they had too many bad teachers now too.. for the affiliated Bible school Pastors were also stealing and committing adultery...  the Judas crowd